Here are my words

     Someone said " I crave space it charges my battaries . It helps me breathe . Being around people can be so exhausting , becuase most of them love to take and barely know how to give . Except for a rare few " .
   
      But here are my words , they tell you why you're not being yourself when you are with them ? . And you start to say to yourself it's not I don't wanna be myself , but being around people who do nothing ,but judge you most of the time makes it feel like this , so sure you'd do your best to hide the real you from them , because your afraid to get hurt which you already are and you just start to convince yourself that it's the best thing for both sides.
    You start to run away and be with people who your sure they 'll appreciate your personality and never even try to judge you for who you are or what ever you do, being just there make you feel much better about your life finally, and every thing around you . Being there with them will make you learn about your personality and every aspect of it . Being there will make love yourself and light up your soul and set you free from fears ,those fears of being around people who love nothing but perfection . being there will make you fee YOU .

       At the end your just eager to say "it doesn't matter if you liked me or not , loved me or not .It took me ages to learn how to love my self , I don't have that kind of time to teach it to somebody else I'm afraid " those are my words .

      written by : Ahlam alsghier

Are early marriages more likely to end in divorces ?

      Though some young adult marriages seem to work , where the couple do their best to save their marriage bond especially if they children . Thier marriage is likely to get stronger with years if they were prepared to face each problem together . But why some marraiges last and some don't ?!. As they try to protect their marriages they simply forget that some marriages dont tend to work out.

        young adults live differently today, many between the age of 18 to 25 their marriages don't last that long and that's been approved in the USA by 50% . The most common reason for this ,that jump into this huge step without knowing each other very well and forget that they are taking a huge and important decision in their lives , and  many under of age 18 leave thier houses without figuring out how to take care of themselves . In simple words how to be responsible .

     Major reason for a divorce in a young adult relationship is trust and it's worse if it was an arranged marriage , like what happens in India . Parents choose whom and when , that happens especially in high class families .It backfires if their young adults just decided to go with their hearts , because then it's a parents approval thing and because it's important to live in peace . It become alot of pressure for the couple with years .

      

     Couples around the world with these kind of problems . They tend to divorce as it offers freedom from abuse and despair . Though it shouldn't be their first soloution whether their marriages were based on love or not . Most young adult marriages that seem to last are those whom finished high school and college . As they went out for life , where they actually lived each stage of their lives without jumping from one to another . Those take place in the age of 25 to 30 .

       

     With all that being said , people should slow down and count from 1 to 10 before taking a huge decision like that , because once you take it . It's hard to go back without a hitch .

         written by : Ahlam alsghier

       

vieled

Would you like to know how foreign nation threat a     veiled women?

The thing that makes me wonder about foreign's point view about veiled women is that it differs from one country to another. Whereas some countries find it a freedom features others prevent it strongly. Countries like Philippines ,Jewish and Germany do not prevent women from getting veiled  , but France on the other hand does and  against it strongly.

To be belong to a country such as France that is not your own, you will face enough issues; you will be arrested and ordered for a fine to get out. France nation look at veiled lady with a contempt, and they do a lot of protest against veiled one, but unfortunately some of Muslims left their veil just to let France nation knows that they are not Arabs {What a shame}. France government does any thing to prevent it strongly.

To live in a country like Philippines, you will be free to wear the veil and they respected strongly, because 1/3 of Philippines population are Muslims and veiled, but they have different views about veiled teacher. They thing it is not good for teacher to be veiled while they are teaching, because they can not show their reaction with lessons while they are teach. They always wonder how teacher can motivate with out showing enthusiasm.

I shall tell you some situations that I heard before about some women choosing Islam and how their society accepts it. A French woman talked about how her parents accept after an afford her decision to be a Muslims, but when she said that she will get veiled, her father refused that and said that a plenty of Muslims do not wear the veil. The woman refused and moved to another house with cutting the connection with her parents. Another emotional situation a Jewish man originally from morocco, he paid for enough women just because they are wearing veil. The most sensitive one a Muslim woman live in France and she did not wear a veil went to the shop to buy stuff; suddenly she met a veiled lady. Unveiled one told the veiled, you have to wear the veil in your country not here the woman rise the veil and the sad truth the woman is from France and she become a Muslim and she said {You Sale Your Religion And We Buy It }.

In conclusion we have to live in country that they respect the veil and never give up.    

     Written by: Fatima abouajela al sadawe

I love you like never before

             
            It's weird how memories could have that great impact in our lives
whether ,if they were sad or happy ones.

I've had this memory with me since the 25th,of Sep ,2010 . the day I lost the half of my heart with my bestfriend's death . this would be probably the first time I talk about it since that day.
I've been pacing back and forth all this time to accept it , but I just couldn't . It still hurt not having her around and me feeling alone most of the time.

Two days before her death , we were together . It was her birthday and we were laughing and talking about finishing high school and go to college together . I still remember it like if it was yesterday . I remember hearing about her death over a phone call her sister made and me being shocked all day.I went to her house . Family and friends were there and me again not being able to speak or even cry . Her Mom hugged me strongly and said things i don't remember ,because I was looking at that crowed and searching for her.

Days went by and I couldn't go through the whole thing or even talk about it to any one . I was always avoiding her Mom and could never look at her in the eye and say sorry for your lost . I tried it once and she gave me that look by her eyes saying " I miss her too" .
I still dream about her and my day could be ruined afterwards and i just can't go on to end it . I could skip school for that and recently I skipped lectures at college . I'd just wake up with that mood can't even do any thing and all I want is to cry and cry till I go to sleep again . 
Now I simply hate September for that .... I couldn't just move on .!!!

Maybe when we get to meet this kind of special people . It gets harder to move on with your life as if nothing happened and you still have to go through the same feelings once in a while . you 'll have to stop for moments in your day and appreciate that time you spent with them and how much you loved and cared for them , but most importantly ,how much you miss their presence in every single second they are not there .


this song explains exactly how i feel 


   click this link to view the song plz..
          Written by : Ahlam  Al-sghier