how are the Libyan weddings?

Weddings in Libya

 Weddings in Libya need  a lot of preparation before, because Libyan have their own traditions which cost a lot of money.

All the weddings in Libya consist at least from three days. In each day has its own tradition. for example, in the first day the bride should wear in pink. Whereas in the second day the grooms’ family brings a lot of Libyan traditional clothes the bride. Also in the last day the bribe go to the  hairdresser and put some makeup also to wear her own dress.

Of course all of that need a lot of preparation a long time before. The weddings’ family have to book a place for the celebration, they need to cook food for the guests, and indeed I should not to forget the clothes which have The lion's share from the budget.

As all know, all Libyan society are have the same religion which is “Islamic” and as part of Islamic weddings rule the groom must give something symbolic to the bride that called “dower”. A long time ago some earlier Muslims used to be the (wholly Quran) as a dower. But, nowadays he has to give money. And surly it depends of the groom budget.

If you want to do a Libyan wedding  you should prepare a lot and earlier, also you need to save a big budget  and to follow the traditional Libyan steps.

                                       Written by: Sarah Hassan Elwared

weddings in Libya

Wedding in Libya

        Libyan people have a lot of traditions and they have to prepare for weddings months before. As well, they must save a lot of money, because they are going to spend a lot.

The traditions in Libya are very important and they are different from area to another, such as the number of days. The relatives member, the  food, and also the music. We as Libyan should be proud of our traditions. However, traditions is the only way to know the culture of the countries.

Let’s move to another point which is the preparation. It takes time to finish preparation like clothes, food, songs and the location. Also you have to prepare for the invitations cards . however, preparation takes time and a lot of power.

To meet this we need a big amount of budget. You have to start saving money since you think about marriage or make a family. By this way can do whatever you want in your wedding.

To sum up Libyan weddings have plenty of things you do and proud of it such as preparations, traditions and budget.

                                  Written by :Fatima aboajela alsadawey

                                                   

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