Here are my words

     Someone said " I crave space it charges my battaries . It helps me breathe . Being around people can be so exhausting , becuase most of them love to take and barely know how to give . Except for a rare few " .
   
      But here are my words , they tell you why you're not being yourself when you are with them ? . And you start to say to yourself it's not I don't wanna be myself , but being around people who do nothing ,but judge you most of the time makes it feel like this , so sure you'd do your best to hide the real you from them , because your afraid to get hurt which you already are and you just start to convince yourself that it's the best thing for both sides.
    You start to run away and be with people who your sure they 'll appreciate your personality and never even try to judge you for who you are or what ever you do, being just there make you feel much better about your life finally, and every thing around you . Being there with them will make you learn about your personality and every aspect of it . Being there will make love yourself and light up your soul and set you free from fears ,those fears of being around people who love nothing but perfection . being there will make you fee YOU .

       At the end your just eager to say "it doesn't matter if you liked me or not , loved me or not .It took me ages to learn how to love my self , I don't have that kind of time to teach it to somebody else I'm afraid " those are my words .

      written by : Ahlam alsghier

Are early marriages more likely to end in divorces ?

      Though some young adult marriages seem to work , where the couple do their best to save their marriage bond especially if they children . Thier marriage is likely to get stronger with years if they were prepared to face each problem together . But why some marraiges last and some don't ?!. As they try to protect their marriages they simply forget that some marriages dont tend to work out.

        young adults live differently today, many between the age of 18 to 25 their marriages don't last that long and that's been approved in the USA by 50% . The most common reason for this ,that jump into this huge step without knowing each other very well and forget that they are taking a huge and important decision in their lives , and  many under of age 18 leave thier houses without figuring out how to take care of themselves . In simple words how to be responsible .

     Major reason for a divorce in a young adult relationship is trust and it's worse if it was an arranged marriage , like what happens in India . Parents choose whom and when , that happens especially in high class families .It backfires if their young adults just decided to go with their hearts , because then it's a parents approval thing and because it's important to live in peace . It become alot of pressure for the couple with years .

      

     Couples around the world with these kind of problems . They tend to divorce as it offers freedom from abuse and despair . Though it shouldn't be their first soloution whether their marriages were based on love or not . Most young adult marriages that seem to last are those whom finished high school and college . As they went out for life , where they actually lived each stage of their lives without jumping from one to another . Those take place in the age of 25 to 30 .

       

     With all that being said , people should slow down and count from 1 to 10 before taking a huge decision like that , because once you take it . It's hard to go back without a hitch .

         written by : Ahlam alsghier

       

vieled

Would you like to know how foreign nation threat a     veiled women?

The thing that makes me wonder about foreign's point view about veiled women is that it differs from one country to another. Whereas some countries find it a freedom features others prevent it strongly. Countries like Philippines ,Jewish and Germany do not prevent women from getting veiled  , but France on the other hand does and  against it strongly.

To be belong to a country such as France that is not your own, you will face enough issues; you will be arrested and ordered for a fine to get out. France nation look at veiled lady with a contempt, and they do a lot of protest against veiled one, but unfortunately some of Muslims left their veil just to let France nation knows that they are not Arabs {What a shame}. France government does any thing to prevent it strongly.

To live in a country like Philippines, you will be free to wear the veil and they respected strongly, because 1/3 of Philippines population are Muslims and veiled, but they have different views about veiled teacher. They thing it is not good for teacher to be veiled while they are teaching, because they can not show their reaction with lessons while they are teach. They always wonder how teacher can motivate with out showing enthusiasm.

I shall tell you some situations that I heard before about some women choosing Islam and how their society accepts it. A French woman talked about how her parents accept after an afford her decision to be a Muslims, but when she said that she will get veiled, her father refused that and said that a plenty of Muslims do not wear the veil. The woman refused and moved to another house with cutting the connection with her parents. Another emotional situation a Jewish man originally from morocco, he paid for enough women just because they are wearing veil. The most sensitive one a Muslim woman live in France and she did not wear a veil went to the shop to buy stuff; suddenly she met a veiled lady. Unveiled one told the veiled, you have to wear the veil in your country not here the woman rise the veil and the sad truth the woman is from France and she become a Muslim and she said {You Sale Your Religion And We Buy It }.

In conclusion we have to live in country that they respect the veil and never give up.    

     Written by: Fatima abouajela al sadawe

I love you like never before

             
            It's weird how memories could have that great impact in our lives
whether ,if they were sad or happy ones.

I've had this memory with me since the 25th,of Sep ,2010 . the day I lost the half of my heart with my bestfriend's death . this would be probably the first time I talk about it since that day.
I've been pacing back and forth all this time to accept it , but I just couldn't . It still hurt not having her around and me feeling alone most of the time.

Two days before her death , we were together . It was her birthday and we were laughing and talking about finishing high school and go to college together . I still remember it like if it was yesterday . I remember hearing about her death over a phone call her sister made and me being shocked all day.I went to her house . Family and friends were there and me again not being able to speak or even cry . Her Mom hugged me strongly and said things i don't remember ,because I was looking at that crowed and searching for her.

Days went by and I couldn't go through the whole thing or even talk about it to any one . I was always avoiding her Mom and could never look at her in the eye and say sorry for your lost . I tried it once and she gave me that look by her eyes saying " I miss her too" .
I still dream about her and my day could be ruined afterwards and i just can't go on to end it . I could skip school for that and recently I skipped lectures at college . I'd just wake up with that mood can't even do any thing and all I want is to cry and cry till I go to sleep again . 
Now I simply hate September for that .... I couldn't just move on .!!!

Maybe when we get to meet this kind of special people . It gets harder to move on with your life as if nothing happened and you still have to go through the same feelings once in a while . you 'll have to stop for moments in your day and appreciate that time you spent with them and how much you loved and cared for them , but most importantly ,how much you miss their presence in every single second they are not there .


this song explains exactly how i feel 


   click this link to view the song plz..
          Written by : Ahlam  Al-sghier

Remember people’s names!!KK

 one of things that really annoyed me ,I find it difficult to remember pepole's names  I do know a lot of people but that  doesn’t mean that I  should  know their names ;like when someone came to me and said are you baraa I know you and I said ok but i don’t or who you know and she start telling me that we were in the same class and had some work together :\ in my mind but how can you still remember the name of mine it’s been a while ..another awkward situation when someone talking and you know each other and his telling his story Kcomes an unexpection queston from me…excuse me: what’s your name I totally forgot. Hhhh  

Wedding in libya

Wedding in libya is an occusion libyan celebrate to band two couple of people in name of marrige.

To  hold a wedding in libya you have to go with spical traditoin,a good budget and a touch of preparation,for example we used to had 7 days in wedding but it changed to 3 days or sometimes one.

The budget of the weeding may cost 15,ooo or more from the mess,food,the hole ..etc good budget have to cover all of those needs .

Libyans had their wedding in seprate groups each women and men take a side in women hole the bridegroom may enter to take some photes with the bride for memories.

ApologyL

I apology for not been writing with you guys,I had some complication but it has been solved.

- my laptop breakdown then I have to fix it K

-the electronic said that my laptop need a new harddisk

-I never ceasing and ask my friend to borrow her laptop

-I write but I can’t published because there’s no giga for the internet

-after suffering  for how much finally i'm here.:)




by barra

my first play

  

The first play I act

The first play that I acted with my friends, it was extremely unexpected, also it took a lot of time to prepare and chose the story.

The group that I acted with them is my best close friend. Their names are Sarah, Ekram, Nora and Abrar. We worked together as nice team work and from our deep heart. However, it was my pleasure to work with them another thing I must not forget, all of it is under supervisor Mrs.Radia and she is one of the perfect teachers in English department.

As well as chose the story to act is not that easy, but finally we chose the story under title The Prince and the Pauper. It contains a lot of energy to act. Also you could get benefit from it. You cannot imagine.  It talks about two stranger boys met together and become friends. It was completely emotional story.

In the other hand we took enough time to prepare every single detail, such as the old smashing clothes also the jewelry and the huge stage. Although the amazing story took a lot of time to prepare but we definitely did it on a limited time, finally it was fantastic event no one thought that we had the talent to act starting from myself.

In conclusion the prince and the pauper took time to prepare it and work with group. Otherwise it was unexpected and fascinated event that I will never forget , I advise  everyone to move on his or her talent .  

     Written by: Fatima alsadawe

Because of what and how Muslims celebrate in Eid Aladha?

Eid Aladha is one of two Eids that Muslims celebrate and it is on 10^th of DoAlheja and it is after finishing the stood of Arafat’s day and it is continue from 3 until 5 days .

According to our religion story that our prophet Ibrahim dreamt that he butcher his son Ismail, on the next morning he told his son about his dream.

Ismail said (dad you can do that because God wanted that, and I am agree about what God’s want).

God saw the good relation between the father and his son, so God gave them a big sheep.

Because of all of these reasons all Muslims buy sheep and butcher it on Eid Aladha.

On Eid’s day all Muslims go to pray at mosques and say to each other “Eid Mubarak” it is Arabic greeting, after that they go back home and they butcher the sheep, all the children play surround their family and you can see the smoke of the broils, at the end of the day Libyan’s people eat the traditional diner dish which is “Osban”.

                        Written by: Fatima alsadawe 

The Movie I Like

       I want to write about a lovely Indian movie I saw yesterday. First, the performance of the actors were incredibly realistic because in one moment I forgot even that its a movie and they were acting . Eventhough the events of this movie is about a very popular case , which is two young people falls in love, but it was interesting and exciting to watch a relation between two different people and how their life continued . Maybe these movies give us a serious advice for our real life, thats why I liked the movie because it has a strong powerful action and reflection. I really enjoyed watching it with my two little sisters and the time was very blinding.

By
Soror Alforjani

how are the Libyan weddings?

Weddings in Libya

 Weddings in Libya need  a lot of preparation before, because Libyan have their own traditions which cost a lot of money.

All the weddings in Libya consist at least from three days. In each day has its own tradition. for example, in the first day the bride should wear in pink. Whereas in the second day the grooms’ family brings a lot of Libyan traditional clothes the bride. Also in the last day the bribe go to the  hairdresser and put some makeup also to wear her own dress.

Of course all of that need a lot of preparation a long time before. The weddings’ family have to book a place for the celebration, they need to cook food for the guests, and indeed I should not to forget the clothes which have The lion's share from the budget.

As all know, all Libyan society are have the same religion which is “Islamic” and as part of Islamic weddings rule the groom must give something symbolic to the bride that called “dower”. A long time ago some earlier Muslims used to be the (wholly Quran) as a dower. But, nowadays he has to give money. And surly it depends of the groom budget.

If you want to do a Libyan wedding  you should prepare a lot and earlier, also you need to save a big budget  and to follow the traditional Libyan steps.

                                       Written by: Sarah Hassan Elwared

weddings in Libya

Wedding in Libya

        Libyan people have a lot of traditions and they have to prepare for weddings months before. As well, they must save a lot of money, because they are going to spend a lot.

The traditions in Libya are very important and they are different from area to another, such as the number of days. The relatives member, the  food, and also the music. We as Libyan should be proud of our traditions. However, traditions is the only way to know the culture of the countries.

Let’s move to another point which is the preparation. It takes time to finish preparation like clothes, food, songs and the location. Also you have to prepare for the invitations cards . however, preparation takes time and a lot of power.

To meet this we need a big amount of budget. You have to start saving money since you think about marriage or make a family. By this way can do whatever you want in your wedding.

To sum up Libyan weddings have plenty of things you do and proud of it such as preparations, traditions and budget.

                                  Written by :Fatima aboajela alsadawey

                                                   

i'm still there

                                                            I'm still there
many things had happen and I'm still there waiting for you to come along and help me out , but you never showed up and I never get bored waiting ...
Though I'm still there waiting . I started questioning every thing in my life with you .
you never said your coming , but i waited so patiently for you and at the last minute I realized that I meant nothing to you and .....
while I'm waiting , I wanted to get back from where I came , but it was too late yet so hard ..
So I just decided to move on

                                                    Written By : Ahlam Al-sghier