Saturday, 18 January 2014

   
 
   

    " And so rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebulit my life "

     I admire you J.K Rowling . I wanna be a good writer like you on day .



      Ahlam

Monday, 13 January 2014

   

          " It's impossible to live without  failing at something , unless you live so
            cautiously that you might as well not have lived at all - in which case , you fail by default"

the key is : don't be afraid of doing what you love even if it didn't work well from the first time 
just try ,try , and try again and you'll success .




By the way guys even if we didnt win those five marks . we'll still be running this blog , and 
we will write every time we feel like writing , so don't set those five marks as your goal cause they certainly not . at least , not mine .



Ahlam Alsghier



            HARRY POTTER for ever
 

         Ahlam


one day , I'll sit there and I'll just forget every thing that has ever hurt me
and I'll just be amazed by looking at every thing around me..

Ahlam

Saturday, 11 January 2014

how my writing should be !

“This sentence has five words. Here are five more words. Five-word sentences are fine. But several together become monotonous. Listen to what is happening. The writing is getting boring. The sound of it drones. It’s like a stuck record. The ear demands some variety. Now listen. I vary the sentence length, and I create music. Music. The writing sings. It has a pleasant rhythm, a lilt, a harmony. I use short sentences. And I use sentences of medium length. And sometimes, when I am certain the reader is rested, I will engage him with a sentence of considerable length, a sentence that burns with energy and builds with all the impetus of a crescendo, the roll of the drums, the crash of the cymbals—sounds that say listen to this, it is important.”

         

                                                                                                                                   — Gary Provost 

Ahlam alsghier

Friday, 27 December 2013

Here are my words

     Someone said " I crave space it charges my battaries . It helps me breathe . Being around people can be so exhausting , becuase most of them love to take and barely know how to give . Except for a rare few " .
   
      But here are my words , they tell you why you're not being yourself when you are with them ? . And you start to say to yourself it's not I don't wanna be myself , but being around people who do nothing ,but judge you most of the time makes it feel like this , so sure you'd do your best to hide the real you from them , because your afraid to get hurt which you already are and you just start to convince yourself that it's the best thing for both sides.
    You start to run away and be with people who your sure they 'll appreciate your personality and never even try to judge you for who you are or what ever you do, being just there make you feel much better about your life finally, and every thing around you . Being there with them will make you learn about your personality and every aspect of it . Being there will make love yourself and light up your soul and set you free from fears ,those fears of being around people who love nothing but perfection . being there will make you fee YOU .

       At the end your just eager to say "it doesn't matter if you liked me or not , loved me or not .It took me ages to learn how to love my self , I don't have that kind of time to teach it to somebody else I'm afraid " those are my words .

      written by : Ahlam alsghier

Are early marriages more likely to end in divorces ?

      Though some young adult marriages seem to work , where the couple do their best to save their marriage bond especially if they children . Thier marriage is likely to get stronger with years if they were prepared to face each problem together . But why some marraiges last and some don't ?!. As they try to protect their marriages they simply forget that some marriages dont tend to work out.

        young adults live differently today, many between the age of 18 to 25 their marriages don't last that long and that's been approved in the USA by 50% . The most common reason for this ,that jump into this huge step without knowing each other very well and forget that they are taking a huge and important decision in their lives , and  many under of age 18 leave thier houses without figuring out how to take care of themselves . In simple words how to be responsible .

     Major reason for a divorce in a young adult relationship is trust and it's worse if it was an arranged marriage , like what happens in India . Parents choose whom and when , that happens especially in high class families .It backfires if their young adults just decided to go with their hearts , because then it's a parents approval thing and because it's important to live in peace . It become alot of pressure for the couple with years .
      
     Couples around the world with these kind of problems . They tend to divorce as it offers freedom from abuse and despair . Though it shouldn't be their first soloution whether their marriages were based on love or not . Most young adult marriages that seem to last are those whom finished high school and college . As they went out for life , where they actually lived each stage of their lives without jumping from one to another . Those take place in the age of 25 to 30 .
       
     With all that being said , people should slow down and count from 1 to 10 before taking a huge decision like that , because once you take it . It's hard to go back without a hitch .

         written by : Ahlam alsghier